Why Human Design?

Not being able to navigate through this world is a frustrating experience.

There are so many people who make statements such as “I do not know who I am” and “I do not know what to do”

Thankfully, human design offers us tools and insights so that we can truly discover who we are and gives us the ability  to live the lives we were  made to live.

The truth is that so many of us are pressured to live lives that are not for us, lives that don’t bring us joy and lives that don’t fulfill our passions. We bodies have innate wisodom on who to be and how to be. But unfortunately  We are taught very early on NOT TO TRUST OURSELVES.

Just think of the messaging we get as children.When we are having an intense emotion which is telling us we are sad and an adult says “ don’t cry, your okay” Or maybe as children we had a hard time sitting still in school and our teachers made us feel that there was something wrong with us because our bodies were telling us to move while she was telling us to sit. As children we continuously pushed to look for authority outside of ourselves. We are never really taught to trust ourselves or to find the answers within ourselves. 

These adults are not always, and in fact most times are not melicouse, they are just victims of a programming the exists in virtually all of us and this program basically screams “Do not trust yourself, do not listen to yourself”, Instead, we are encouraged to listen to everyone outside of ourselves. We are taught to listen to authority, we do what our parents tell us, we follow career paths that society seems acceptable, we check each box of what we should do.

But this can often lead to a void because we are too focused on living lives that make other people happy and are seen as socially acceptable.

This is where deconditioning comes in. Deconditioning is the process in human design where we stop living according to other people's authorities, opinions and projections and we start living for ourselves.

This process can be scary and can even be terrifying. It is not easy, after having years of learning to obey others, to start recognizing the inherent wisdom that is held within ourselves.

it takes deconditioning to learn how to trust ourselves.

So why human design? Human design does not only give us some insights on who we are but it also gives us insights on HOW TO BE WHO we are.   Human design teaches us how to tap into our bodies wisdom, Human design teaches us how to navigate through life in a way that is authentic to us.